Monday, January 11, 2016

Sex and Spirituality: How Do Women Orgasm From Visual Stimuli or Sound ?


Peace and Blessings  
How do you think a woman can orgasm from listening to certain music ?  Music is sound. Sound is tone. Tones are vibrations. Vibrations are energy. Emotions are energy. We are energy. Similarly the right visual stimuli can effect a woman's body beyond her control. Generally for a woman this will not be from looking at a picture but  the affect of observing a real man doing real things. But the key for her pleasure will be her open mind and ability to tap into the depth of her response.


 "Let's Just Jump Right In the Deep End"

We have been a polite, repressed society for a while now, especially when it comes to talking openly with each other about human sexuality.  Sexuality is a key part of spirituality.We are not different than any other form of Stardust ( minerals) and or vibrations ( molecules) of the Universe. Yet human life has slowed the speed of our energy into a density that allows for sexual pleasure between consenting partners. We can bump, grind, kiss, caress, cuddle and feel each other physically. 



The Gates of Heaven  opened and  We  fell into Place

 Born thru our mothers womb and of our fathers seed we have nothing to be ashamed of. Shame is taught thru religion and families and is the leading cause of adult perversion. But I really do not want to dirty this blog up by going into the issues of adult perverts and why they act out sexually towards the wrong people or why they associate sex with power, pain, humiliation, secretiveness and control.

Just please keep in mind, my topic is for adults interested in healthy sexuality with other adults. Period! Sex ( making love) is about becoming one with another and transmuting our separateness, all the while experiencing the sensations of our bodies touching.  It is a naturally explosive phenomenon  that is taken a bit too casually in a society that misunderstands the spiritual nature of sex. Instead we have come to see sex as recreation, in which any "body" is replaceable by another body. 

The first step in knowing sex as Divine is to know your self. No one can teach you who you are, but it is good to talk and learn from others about who they are. The real work of self-knowledge is going to be your own work of art or it will simply be a projection of some one else's belief system. 

Many  people will gladly hand over the cash to have their mind "changed" so to speak. But drugs and professionally provided diversions have a shelf life and price. No matter what..your demons and issue will continue to "raise hell" when ever your clarity resurfaces. Sooner or latter you will tire of paying for the snake oil. You will actually be exited to love and accept your self and every hellish bit of your life experience. It is called transcendence. Or as they used to say "You have to go thru it to get to it".  The spiritual path is one of the Divine within you. Once awaken you will connect easily to the divine in others, even people who have not found their own peace..you at least will bare witness to it for them.


 The Journey Into Self Knowledge involves forgiveness and learning how to carefully work thru emotions such as shame, betrayal and rejection and find the gem within each situation.
Once this process is complete or even when you are midway thru your courageous effort, you will discover more and more about the spiritual truth of sexuality. 

The brain is the biggest and best sex organ. The mind is said to be separate from the brain and to house the divine. 
While no one can prove this or clarify exactly where the mind is...we do know this: that women can orgasm from visual stimulation and sound. Certain combinations of tone ( i.e. sound in the form of music) can create deep orgasmic pleasure wave after wave!  A woman who feels strong enough to access her deep emotional  "basement" can experience a touch less orgasm simply by  giving in to her ability to feel deeply. Going deep enough allows her to arrive at the other side of emotional pain and into deep ecstasy.

 For years it was believed via the oppressive Western cultures that women could not or should not freely experience orgasm. Women were mentally repressed and that leads to the physical repression of pleasure. A nervous system that is under duress can not  send the proper signals from the body to the brain. To make matters worse being told that pleasure is wrong or having experienced sexual abuse only causes more mixed signals and bad wiring. Keep in "mind" that the nervous system branches from the spine upwards from the sacrum to cranium. 

The more you know about Kundalini Energy the more this will be clear to you: Pleasure is mental and physical. To put it simply..sexuality and spirituality are the same when your lense is love. Together sexuality and spirituality easily merge the mental with the physical.  As we  know from alternative medicine, it is true that our thoughts affect the body when it comes to health and healing. 

How do you think a woman can orgasm from listening to certain music ?  Music is sound. Sound is tone. Tones are vibrations. Vibrations are energy. Emotions are energy. We are energy. Similarly the right visual stimuli can effect a woman's body beyond her control. Generally for a woman this will not be from looking at a picture but  the affect of observing a real man doing real things. But the key for her pleasure will be her open mind and ability to tap into the depth of her response.

  Remember that many ( the majority) of women are not at one with themselves (body , mind and spirit). It is not always the well studied woman who is...sometimes what it is most important is that the woman is a free spirit who allows all her emotions  to have a home within her soul . Pleasure and pain are divided by a thin line. A woman who owns the discomfort of her emotional pain can tap into the deepest pleasure. Some of you may have experienced a woman suddenly crying emotional tears during intense sex, then burst into laughter. What about tears of joy ?  I just want to remind you that when we arrive at our deepest level no emotion is bad. The essence of pleasure is feeling.

When (or if)  a woman discovers for herself that sound or visual stimuli can cause her to orgasm, these occurrences it will  be rare and spontaneous. This is  not something she can force or plan. 


Side note: Adding a loving man and his energy to the mix of her potency
WILL create a long lasting elixer of love to sustain both of them



Thanks For Joining Me as we
Explored this Amazing topic of female sexuality.
-Rose Quartz Counseling and Consulting

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Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Rose Quartz Boutique : Saying Goodbye to Salt and Seasoning Salt: Three C...

Rose Quartz Boutique : Saying Goodbye to Salt and Seasoning Salt: Three C...: Three Cheers For Healthy Changes, Pass The Bubbly! Seasoning salt and salt are known to enhance flavor. But the truth is they cover...

Rose Quartz Boutique : Saying Goodbye to Salt and Seasoning Salt: Three C...

Rose Quartz Boutique : Saying Goodbye to Salt and Seasoning Salt: Three C...: Three Cheers For Healthy Changes, Pass The Bubbly! Seasoning salt and salt are known to enhance flavor. But the truth is they cover...

Saying Goodbye to Salt and Seasoning Salt: Three Cheers For Healthy Changes


Three Cheers For Healthy Changes, Pass The Bubbly!



Seasoning salt and salt are known to enhance flavor. But the truth is they cover and disguise the taste of meats and other foods that have a poor flavor. Just last month I ran out of my Johnny's Season salt. I have been a heavy Johnny's girl for at least a decade. Whether cooking Senegalese yassa or smoked ribs Johnny's has been my right hand man. It has MSG and mostly salt with other seasonings and preservatives. It's additives are addictive. Or so it seems because seasoning salt is something that you get used to putting on  meat and other over cooked bland items to make them tasty. I put it on vegetables, in pots of greens, and on red, white and black beans, gumbo, soup, spaghetti and allover foods I cooked for other people such as eggs and beef burgers. Johnny's is made in the Northwest and has more MSG and better flavor to me than Lawry's. Sometimes I would remember my Gramma in St.Louis who only used salt & pepper  to season her fried chicken flour. I couldn't  figure out how she did it except that she used a cast iron pot and got the Crisco so hot. Well I didn't have that old type pot, I needed Johnny's..I least that how I felt all these years.




 Change is Good and Sometimes Unplanned
A few weeks ago I shook out the bottom contents of a large jar of seasoning salt....
When I was at the grocery store the next day, I decided out of nowhere not to replace it. But maybe I had been thinking about it in  my subconscious mind for a while. Over the past year  I noticed Johnny's was sold in extra large containers in the Black stores in the Black neighborhoods, I had been noticing the labeling was starting to look cheap and overly mass produced. The product I loved so much seemed more like malt liquor, Newport's and other items that are dominant in certain stores. Unhealthy. A bad choice. I struggled without coffee on some mornings when I had ran out .But I would always replace my seasoning salt if I even got close to running out, How had it become so important to me and my cooking? Maybe, just maybe it was just a bad habit. 

Well it has been three weeks and I have cooked curry, stew, breakfasts, lunch and dinners with no Seasoning salt, no salt and no added MSG. When I used a broth it was the low sodium broth .

Here is what I am using instead, on my food or on the side for flavor enhancement. I am much happier and healthier already. Let's just say I decided to stop sprinkling death on my food. Food actually tastes so much better. And if it doesn't taste good then I take that as a hint I should not be eating it. Salt adds a punch to food but also takes away the taste. Salt less cooking is enhanced by slow cooking, allowing flavors to mellow and become savory. And of course fresh vegetables and salads are generally enjoyed without adding salt or seasoning salt. Salt free you will also eat less, as your body will signal you when you are full and your mouth will not be craving another bite as it does with salty, MSG spikes foods. Eat less, save money!
Ginger
Brown Sugar

Dried Peppers


Sliced avacado go with every dish
Cilantro


Lime is Alkaline, while lemon is Acidic


More Peppers, Try a Variety and dry your own
Curry



Basil Fresh add it Raw or cook it in

Black Pepper



Peace and Blessings From Rose Quartz
Happy "New Year" 
Keep it Seasoned Nice, Let thangs marinate and thank God for the subconscious mind! You do not always have to stress or plan healthy changes..just pay attention to the conversation between your mind and your body...soon you will follow your heart 



Wednesday, December 9, 2015

The Sensual Hibernation: Writing The Next Chapter of Your Life, with Photography by Emily Imani



Peace and Blessings From Rose Quartz
 Thank you for joining me in celebrating  winter with  uplifting words,
soft &warm fashion and a few nature pictures. Life is not the sort of novel that should lose your attention. So take a moment to curl up with a tea or a hot toddy, roll up or unwrap a lollipop .
   Let's Tune into the next chapter of your life... what will you write ?


 We are each the author of our stories yet only God knows where some of those  plot twists come from. Sometimes fear of the unknown can cause us to stay stuck repeating the same scene over and over again. Is it really getting more fun ?

 Make sure your story keeps you intrigued. The pen is in your hand.
 For me keeping things soft, sensual and sort of silly while being deadly serious in an ALL CAPS kind of way WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT  makes me passionate  about my life story. Yes I get bored, depressed and have whole days that I sort of "rest".  Yet those days are definitely not the overall theme. How is your life story unfolding?  This years winter wonderland could heat up with new characters, old flames and a little mystery.....






We can also choose  how we handle our winter moods. There are too many horrors of war taking place in the world.  We must express and activate our intention for a better world. Being downtrodden is the same as defeat. So let's uplift the best we can and stay true to our work while on earth. Some will not understand how you go about your mission..and who cares. God gave it to you to  "work it" for a reason and not just for a season.

 I made the choice this year to keep my summer self alive by harnessing the energy of my free spirit, which is often is shivering in the winter and nurturing her playful vibration. This includes plenty of time outdoors, eating  healthy food, mostly fruit and NOT falling into the habit of dressing in a way that depresses me. I live in one of the worlds rainiest cities so it is very easy to dress like a lumber jack or a construction worker in muddy rain gear and feel like a bag lady stomping around in mushy boots .




 What makes winter cozy for you ? For some it's family time, and crock pot meals, while for others it may be taking a class, or  having time for an indoor hobby. Maybe it's great co-workers and potlucks or relishing a bit of solitude at a rainy bus stop. A night of conversation in an almost empty bar with a relative can build family bonds that last all year. Alot of things are more cozy in the wet coldness of winter. Warmth is rare, enticing and valuable. As you watch your breath expelled into the cold morning air you will witness the magic of  being alive.

 Winter can come crashing down on some of us with the blues, snowstorms, loss of power and not enough daylight. We have to enhance our experiences by choice and effort.

 The darkest days of the year are also the shortest
 Fear not the change in moods...   Find creative ways to be your self under all those layers of clothing.  PUT YOUR FEELINGS AND DREAMS IN ALL CAPS as you write  the next chapter in your life.


Thanks for joining me on this winter journey..global warming and all. So what is with all these pictures of me in the animal print dress?

Well it's a  FLEECE LINED  leopard print dress I got in Portland last year .


 What you wear is just another way to make winter a jump out of the box time of the year. Hold your loved ones close and never fear freeing yourself...because when it's too late you will wonder why you held yourself back from the world.


Emily Imani "Secret Smile"


Winter Evening at the Park, Magic in the air




 That can happen in the winter too. Just remember if you could see the BIG picture
you would be happy to move on with grace 

Random Nature Pic, Nightime by Emily Imani



Mt.Rainier From Southcenter Mall Parking Lot

Emily Imani Rose Quartz Unzipped

Peace

"STAY IN IT TO WIN IT "