Ending Obsessive Love, Psychic Attacks and Energy Vamping

OBSESSIVE LOVE By Emily Imani Yamenita RoseQuartz 

Obsessive love is a form of psychic attack on the object your affection. You are making them responsible for fufilling your needs. You are ignoring the fact that they never said nor done anything to indicate they are in love with you yet you overide this and continue to love them with an obsession. You ignore the fact there is no consent or mutuality in this situation. You give the object of your "affection" godlike or goddess like qualities and deny them the peace of simply being human . When you love someone obsessively without mutuality you attempt to live thru them. You know that they never choose you ..so you ignore everything real about them and continue to love obsessively. You try to get inside the person you " love" from a distance, attempting to direct their thoughts towards you, you don't respect boundaries nor are you dwelling in reality.

What happens when an obsessive love is constantly directed at "an object of affection" ? Its a form of energy vampirism and a psychic attack. Just face it if you are obsessing over a person, you want that persons energy and you don't care how they feel. It is a psychic attack that slowly affects the other persons happiness and health. Often the victim has no idea why they are feeling so poorly. This sort of energy vampire knows you are not in love with them so they will avoid any discussion or acknowledgement of your feelings. The spookiest thing about these types is that they do not care about the object of their affections feelings. Despite romantic talk, they view the person they are obsessed with as an object whose feelings are not relevant.
*Example:
The call you pet names such as "love", baby, Goddess, Queen and escalate to adding a possessive pronoun so that when they text you they will address you as " My Love" as in "Good Morning My Love" or "My Queen" etc .
Why is this a red flag ? It's a red flag because you never agreed to be their love or Queen or Goddess. You have made no consensual agreement to be in a relationship with them .

They will "act" as a friend, yet may make requests for you to do little tasks, cook a certain dish or wear a certain outfit., go to an event etc. Anything so that they can experience that you are in compliance with them . They negatively affect the "energy" of  the person they are obsessed with by directing unhealthy amounts of  ( thoughts) and obsessive "love" towards them.The obsessive person is often euphoric, full of "love" because they are using the other persons energy as a drug.

Example: A guy sends a text to a woman, stating he has a picture of  her on his wall that he downloaded off her Facebook. He says he can feel and absorb her sexual energy. She on the other hand has noticed that lately she no sex drive and has become chronically fatigued sleeping almost anytime she is not at work. Only later when she reviews her text messages does she notice the obvious connection between when he took her energy and when she became ill and lost her sex drive. He was practicing energy vampirism. In a real and loving relationship or even in a professional scenario there would be an equal energy exchange. She would have been compensated. The psychic attack as done by an energy vampire is draining because the victim is never compensated. The perpetrator of this sort of psychic attack will do odd things such as download your images off the internet and print them. He knows you would not send or give him a picture of yourself if he asked. He knows you will not answer his phone calls so he only texts. He begins the pattern of energy vampirism in which you are always on his mind. He gives you to himself bowing at the altar of images of you he has in his bedroom. The victim may notice she is suddenly thinking of him too but not in a good way. If she is aware of her vibrations she will notice that she feels irritated for no apparent reason . Often she will not realize it is the pleasant guy who has a big crush/ obsessive love for her. He seems so gentle and kind. Actually the fact is he is one of the worst kinds. It's entirely unhealthy for him to be so focused on you when he knows you do not want him.

Myths of Sirens, Mermaids and Demons often feature an alluring persistant female who eventually sucks the life force out of the object of her affection. Many women have mastered the art of seduction and mind games in order to control a man, yet psychic attacks and energy vampirism are on whole other level as they can be done from a distance and without any contact.

"The energy system is directly connected to the nervous system. By overloading energy system, physical nervous system can be attacked as well, causing real physical damages. But those are only the strongest types of overload, most of them will just overload the system for few hours, by putting a way too much energy than the system can handle."

"Whenever one person enters into an area where they are attempting to control the thoughts or actions of another person, they are practicing a form of black magic."

There is nothing "loving" or healthy about an obsessive love in which there is no mutual feeling. Some would call it selfish and manipulative. It is simply a love between a dreamer and the dream in their head in which the object of affection becomes an unwilling victim and the conduit of energy to keep the obsessive person energized. Do you really want to use another human as your source of energy ? It is not healthy to want someone who does not want you. This is described as spiritual rape or metaphysical rape. Oh and I should mention that Karma is a bitch so be careful who you drain. Unfortunately you may end up losing a great friend or pushing them over the edge. Its never a good idea to use your energy to overpower another persons will. Eventually their soul will call them back in search of their true destiny.

"Obsessive love is a hypothetical state in which one person feels an overwhelming obsessive desire to possess another person toward whom they feel a strong attraction, with an inability to accept failure or rejection.[1] Although not categorized specifically under any specific mental diagnosis by the DSM V, some people argue that obsessive love is considered to be a mental illness similar to attachment disorder, borderline personality disorder, and erotomania" #Yami#RoseQuartz